"Mom, look what Elaine did! She broke my headband, my favorite one with the cherries on it!" (begins to cry)
"Elaine, you need to say, 'I'm sorry' to your sister immediately."
"I forgive you. But it's still your fault."
"Lucy, is that a really kind thing to say?"
"Well, it IS her fault."
"When you broke my Snoopy Christmas ornament and you told me you were sorry, did I say, 'I forgive you, but it's still your fault'?"
"But it really is still her fault."